“There is a time for everything, and a season for every activity under the heavens.” (Ecclesiastes 3:1)
“There is a time to say ‘karibu’ (welcome), and a time to say ‘kwaheri’ (goodbye).” Dr. Lee, Bridgeworld College’s principal, shared those words at the college’s last chapel service during the last week of regular classes a few weeks ago. Sadly, the time has come for our family to say “kwaheri” to Bridgeworld College and to Kenya. We have thoroughly enjoyed our time here. There is so much that we will miss.
We will miss worship at St. Matthew’s ACK. We will miss kneeling to receive communion. We will miss the elegance (and sometimes the quirkiness) of British English. We will miss the “pole pole” (slowly by slowly) pace of life here. We will miss living and working in a multiracial, multinational, multi-ethnic community. We will all miss the food, especially all the fresh fruit, chapati and mandazi, though no one will miss ugali. We will miss the proximity to so many different beautiful landscapes and terrains, and the wonder of seeing giraffes and zebras just there out the car window. We will not miss the frequent (and frequently unmarked!) speed-bumps on almost every road.
Ryan will miss the staff and students at Bridgeworld College. He will miss Nixon’s advice on how to navigate Nairobi by matatu. He will miss trying to speak French with Pauline. He will miss Rebecca’s delight in my pitiful attempts to speak Swahili. He will miss tea breaks and lunch hour conversations with Dr. Choi, Dr. Lee and Rev. Lee. He will miss the Monday morning prayer meetings, Wednesday chapel services, and especially Canon Mwaura’s benedictions.
Jody will miss coffee on the patio on these fresh early mornings. She will miss the African elements and interesting architecture of our home here. She will miss the variety of plants and flowers in the yard, and the different kinds of birds that come to the pond. She will miss the delight and joy so many Kenyans express on seeing our fairly large family out and about – “so many children for mzungu! (white people) Such blessings!” She will not miss fiddling with the locked gate at the end of our driveway every time we want to go anywhere though.
Evan will miss having an upstairs bedroom with a balcony and a great view. Graeme and Torin will miss our yard and large fish pond, including the mud hole on the side. All of the boys will miss the lizards, chameleons and slugs they frequently find outside.
Playing with Rhemma
Bronwyn and Gwennyth will miss Josie and Rhemma, neighbor-friends. They will also miss the new puppies next door, but they won’t miss the same neighbor’s rooster, who crows at all hours of the day and night. Saeryn will miss the different kinds of birds that come to the pond, and especially the heron we often see fishing in the mornings.
The first “Kwaheri” was experienced at Bridgeworld. The final chapel service for this semester was a very meaningful time of worship with the college community. It was a great joy for our family to gather around the Lord’s table with the school’s staff and students.
Hannah, Anthony and Pauline led worship
Canon Mwaura administered communion
In addition to the worship service, there was also an opportunity for the students to say goodbye. James and Rebecca offered kind and encouraging words of appreciation, and presented Jody and I with tokens of appreciation from the student body. Dr. Lee prayed for our family and for Rev. Lee, who is leaving for a yearlong sabbatical.
The students’ reading/study break between the end of regular classes and their exams provided time for me to treat the school staff to an appreciation lunch. Jody and I cannot express enough our appreciation for the wonderful welcome we received and enfolding into community that we experienced at Bridgeworld College. The school staff definitely went above and beyond to make our family’s staff in Kenya comfortable and enjoyable.
A week ago last Friday the college staff joined together for a final farewell party for our family at our home. Though we hosted the party, the college had the meal catered for us, complete with goat – one Kenyan food we had not yet tried (at least not that we know of). It was wonderful to fellowship together. I will forever remember and appreciate Canon Mwaura’s final words to Jody and I, as well as his desire to bless each of our children.
Last Friday morning we had our hardest “Kwaheri,” as we visited Findley’s grave one last time before our departure. We brought fresh flowers, and planted two white roses bushes there. We plan to purchase a similar bush in Pella next spring to plant at our home there in his memory. When we came to Kenya, we never imagined that one of our children would not come home with us.
We have been thankful for the kindness of a nearby counseling center that offered us space in their prayer garden for Findley’s burial. We had a private family committal service there a few weeks ago.
Leaving Kenya also meant saying “Kwaheri” to the Blohm family, missionaries with AIM Air in Nairobi. Trista Vanderwal, a missionary supported by Faith Church, introduced Jody and Ej to one another via Facebook in January. Ej provided a wealth of advice and cultural intelligence as we prepared to move to Nairobi. She, Phil and their boys were quick to visit and welcome us when we arrived, and have become very dear friends. We especially appreciated the time they spent with us and tears they shared with us after Findley’s death. Their support and comfort, as well as the fun our families have together, has been a gift we treasure, and we thank God for extending grace to us through the Blohm family. Last Friday afternoon, Phil & co-workers gave our family a tour of the AIM Air offices and the hangar at Wilson Airport where he works. Afterwards, we shared a meal with the Blohms at their home.
And finally this past Sunday we said “Kwaheri” to St. Matthew’s ACK. Our vicar, Rev. Redson Komu, kindly gave our family time to thank the congregation for the church home they have been for us during our time in Kenya, and prayed for us as we prepare to return to the United States.
On the front steps at St. Matthew’s ACK.
Ryan, Vicar Komu, and his son.
One of the first people to befriend us, Joshua, made sure we got chai after church, and invited the kids to Sunday School.
Football after church.
Sunday School – the girls went to this class
And the boys to this one for older kids.
While it is hard and sad to say “Kwaheri,” everyone has been quick to tell us: “Karibuni tena.” We are most welcome to come again to Kenya!
We depart in a few short hours. Our first flight from Nairobi is scheduled to leave just before 11pm local time (Tuesday). We fly overnight to London. Our second flight from Nairobi to Chicago is scheduled to depart just after 8.30am local time (Wednesday). We are scheduled to arrive in Chicago around noon local time (Wednesday). Both flights are approximately 9 hours long. Please pray that all of our air travel goes as well as it did when we traveled here in July. We are grateful for Lee Talma and Ken Van Zee who are planning to meet us in Chicago with our van. Please pray for a safe drive back to Pella on Wednesday afternoon.